Heal from Toxic Relationships | Self-Confidence, Relationship Boundaries, Red Flags, Trust in God, Healing Trauma
Do you feel like you’re in a constant cycle of toxic relationships? Do you struggle with confidence, finding your worth in what your current boyfriend says about you - no matter how hurtful? Have years of people-pleasing and lack of healthy boundaries left you burnt out and triggering deep emotional wounds? Are you unsure how to trust God in the wake of betrayal and heartbreak? I am so honored that you’re here! This podcast is your go-to resource for healing from unhealthy relationship patterns, building unshakeable confidence in Christ, and discovering your God-given purpose. Whether you’re longing to break free from emotional wounds or preparing your heart for a healthy, Godly marriage, you’re in the right place. Hey, I’m Dani! A Christian life coach, wife, and recovering people-pleaser who spent 10 years trapped in unhealthy, non-committed relationships. I searched for my worth in men, career success, and countless self-help books, but nothing filled the void—until I turned to Christ. Through a Christ-centered healing method, I finally broke free from my past, healed deep emotional wounds, and built my identity in Christ. Now, I’m here to help you do the same! In this podcast, I’ll teach you how to: - Heal from toxic relationships and emotional trauma - Overcome the fear of being alone and build healthy, loving relationships - Establish bold boundaries rooted in God’s truth and love - Feel confident in your God-given purpose, preparing you for a Godly marriage - Address and heal the wounds of abandonment and rejection, finding your true worth in Christ - Deepen your relationship with God, learning how to hear His voice and trust Him fully in every aspect of your life If you’re ready to transform your life, love yourself with confidence, and align your relationships with God’s plan, grab your favorite mocktail and join me! Together, we’ll overshare, overcome, and step into the abundant life God has for you. Next steps: Join the Free Community: http://bit.ly/healtoxicrelationshipsgroup Email Us: support@lovedani.org
Episodes
Wednesday Nov 16, 2022
How to Get Unstuck Without Willpower or Motivation w/ Tracy Hill
Wednesday Nov 16, 2022
Wednesday Nov 16, 2022
Have you been feeling stuck in life? Do you have bad habits that you're trying to break, but it seems like nothing's working? Are you experiencing negative self-talk most of the day? Is there something inside of you that's screaming "there's more in life"?!
I have Dr. Tracy Hill who is a Doctor of Physical Therapy and a Certified Master Neuro Coach. She blends brain and body science to help women find sustainable and consistent success in their bodies without the need for willpower, motivation, or restriction.
She went from thinking she was going to be a pastor's wife to her husband falling into alcohol addiction and walking away from God. She experienced so many ups and downs in her life through building a new business in 2020, homeschooling her two boys, and trying to find her identity in Christ when her world was crumbling.
Her perseverance, mindset, and dependence on the Lord through her toughest seasons are incredibly inspiring! This one is for you if you're
Seeking your identity
Feeling stuck in bad habits or thought patterns
Desiring to create consistent success in your body & mind
Wanting to know if you can trust God in what you're walking through
Craving more out of life but you may feel hesitant about moving forward or "stuck"
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Wednesday Nov 09, 2022
You Do NOT Belong to Darkness
Wednesday Nov 09, 2022
Wednesday Nov 09, 2022
Been waiting on the Lord to tell me if it was okay I share a recent event that happened in my life and took my faith to a whole new level, so here's the moment!
Are you battling with fear, doubt, insecurity, evil thoughts, or any darkness in your life? Do you feel like you can never catch a break in life? Have you been wondering if something is wrong with you or why you can't seem to overcome the negative cycles in your life?
In this episode, I share an event that I hope builds your faith to know WHO CHRIST CALLED YOU TO BE. If you need a reminder of the type of authority and power you have through the blood of Jesus then you've come to the right place. I share with you what you're really experiencing as you're walking through those battles and how Jesus can be the source of your everlasting light and confidence!
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Wednesday Nov 02, 2022
Seek and You Will Find w/ Montana Patterson
Wednesday Nov 02, 2022
Wednesday Nov 02, 2022
Whew! Talk about a testimony that leaves an imprint on your heart... Montana is a 20-year-old, psychology major who had a near-death experience happen to her. On the outside looking in, the incident should've killed her but God had other plans for her!
Montana shares her experience through violence, anger, homosexuality, suicidal attempts, disobedience, and rebellion against God. Listening to this young woman speak the wisdom that God has given her was truly inspiring for me, and I know it will be impactful for those who:
Are struggling with sin or bad habits in their life
Are feeling hopeless and don't feel like you have a purpose in this life
Are having thoughts of suicide, depression, or anxiety
Need a faith boost for your faith in God
Needs encouragement as you're walking through something heavy
Feel like you're alone in your mental battles
Struggling with your identity in Christ
If you start the episode, please finish it all the way through to hear the full message, because we do speak on controversial worldviews and we want you to hear our full heart on it.
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Wednesday Oct 26, 2022
The ”Secrets” of Unforgiveness & Becoming Spiritually Strong
Wednesday Oct 26, 2022
Wednesday Oct 26, 2022
Is it hard to forgive people who’ve hurt you? Are you going through life feeling spiritually weak or afraid? Questioning your true worth?
In today’s episode, I cover a lil bit of everything! Lol! From the dangers of holding onto unforgiveness, to the power of our words, to stepping into our authority as believers.
Whether you need a truth-filled perspective shift on forgiveness or steps to strengthen yourself spiritually, this is the one for you!
If it blesses you, share it with a friend!
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Wednesday Oct 19, 2022
How to Turn Your Brokenness Into Beauty w/ Taylor Allen
Wednesday Oct 19, 2022
Wednesday Oct 19, 2022
Wondering how to feel less broken? Do you have past trauma that's hindering you? Are you wanting to heal yourself but don't know where to start? Do you feel like you don't belong anywhere? If you feel broken on the inside this is for you...
This was a beautiful conversation with the CEO of Planet Womanaire, Taylor Allen. She is a woman walking with a higher purpose from God, to help women heal by sharing truth and bonding over the scars of life. Taylor is a high-achieving woman who passionately leads her organization of 1700+ women towards the best version of themselves spiritually, mentally and relationally. She believes in sharing the battles she went through to truly help the next woman overcome the war they are in.
Taylor shares her struggles with domestic abuse, a public breakup, suicidal thoughts, depression, and substance abuse, while feeling responsible to continue leading through her pain and mental decline. She gives you the first steps to start your healing journey, what to expect, and how to love yourself in whatever season you're in!
You can find Taylor on IG: https://www.instagram.com/thewomanaire/
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Wednesday Oct 12, 2022
If You’re Doing This, You’re Separating Yourself from God
Wednesday Oct 12, 2022
Wednesday Oct 12, 2022
Are you craving a deeper relationship with God? Have you steered away from "organized religion"? Did you experience church hurt in the past? Are you wondering how you can strengthen your authority as a spiritual being?
I speak from personal experience in this episode on how this ONE thing has made one of the biggest impacts on my life when it comes to my marriage, my relationship with God, my friendships, my faith, and my boldness as a believer. It's opened my eyes to what the true desires of my heart are and what inspires me most as a woman.
If you are seeking a next powerful step in your growth journey or answers on how to move forward from past hurt around Christianity, this episode is for you. And SUUUURPRISE!... This is the first episode I've recorded in full flow mode - aka without any notes. Talk about uncomfortable action, eeeep! On the edge of my seat to hear your thoughts on this recording style - let me know by shooting me a DM on our Instagram!
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Wednesday Oct 05, 2022
Your Purpose, Passion and Imperfect Journey w/ Alejandra Sanet
Wednesday Oct 05, 2022
Wednesday Oct 05, 2022
Scammed out of $8k, living in the USA alone, about to get kicked out of her apartment, and the ONLY thing she had left was God...
Have you ever hit your lowest of lows? Felt like God gave you a vision or desire and you're so close to quitting because it's just gotten too hard? Are you losing faith? Stressed about money or feel like money's taken over your life recently? Do you want to control your situation to the point where you're stressing yourself out and feel like all odds are against you?
My good friend Ale shares her personal testimoney, and how God brought her through a storm so she could see again. Going from having a rocky relationship with God, to making Him her foundation in business and giving Him all the glory! There were many things that could've wiped her out. That could've led her to quitting entrepreneurship all together. But she held onto her passion for helping other women create beauty from their struggle, and has created a business to help serve women in the online course space.
It's so amazing to witness God's work firsthand, to hear the struggles someone lived, and learn how they overcame them once they let go of control and trusted in Jesus to take over.
You can find Alejandra here: https://www.instagram.com/alejandrasanet_/
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Wednesday Sep 28, 2022
Becoming A New Creation In Christ
Wednesday Sep 28, 2022
Wednesday Sep 28, 2022
Do you want real change in your life? Have you been walking with the Lord for some time but feel like you haven’t grown? Do you want to become the best version of yourself? Are you curious what life is like walking with Christ?
Today I cover all of it! I talk about the most shocking truth that I’ve experienced over the last two years since I started walking with God. It’s this new person (aka creation) I’ve become that I never thought I’d be. And by the way, it’s not just me - I’ve witnessed so many people completely change to the point that I barely recognize who they were before.
If you are seeking real, deep change within yourself, have questions about how you can grow deeper in your relationship with God or need clarity on what life looks like as a believer... tune in to today’s episode and let me know what your biggest takeaway is by tagging @blackoutstobreakthroughs on Instagram!
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Wednesday Sep 21, 2022
Taking Ownership of Your Health w/ Laura Silva
Wednesday Sep 21, 2022
Wednesday Sep 21, 2022
Is your physical health taking a toll on your mental health? Do you feel alone in your health journey… like no one is able to help you or gets it? Are you in a constant state of anxiety or depression? Do you not feel like yourself anymore? Do you feel defeated while trying to heal your body?
My special friend Laura, get’s so vulnerable in this episode diving deep into her experience in doctor’s offices, feeling hopeless when it came to healing her body and battling a permanent depression because of it all.
She suffered from PCOS, IBS, gut issues, depression, anxiety, inflammation, joint pain, lack of sleep, low sex drive, hormonal imbalance and in her words “just going through everything”.
She’s going to make you feel seen if you’re struggling with something similar. She honestly drops so many gems and tips on how you can start, restart or stay determined on your healing journey. I’m so inspired by her, and I know you will be too — she’s a warrior who teaches you how to advocate for your own health!
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Wednesday Sep 14, 2022
God’s Plan Is Permanent
Wednesday Sep 14, 2022
Wednesday Sep 14, 2022
Are you afraid of a missed opportunity? Do you feel like you've dropped the ball in the past? Feeling paralyzed because the last thing you want to do is make the wrong decision? Ever question what God's plan for your life is?
In this short but mighty episode, we dive into 2 Corinthians 2:12-14 and how it shows us God's plan is permanent. If you've ever worried about messing up God's plan for your life, moving in the wrong direction or missing out on what God has for you then this 15 minutes is exactly what you need to hear today!
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Your Breakthrough Is Waiting For You
What does it mean to heal? To live a happy life? To feel good?
From a recovering perfectionist who has fought battles with drunkenness, meaningless hookups and one night stands, obsessed with how other's perceived me, trying to find worth in my status after being emotionally and verbally abused in a relationship, completely lost in my identity and seeking for any way to exit reality...
I started Blackouts To Breakthroughs for you.
I know how it feels to think deep thoughts to yourself and never say them out loud. I know how it feels to question your sanity for staying in a toxic relationship. I know how it feels to wonder if this is all life is meant to be. I know how it feels to want more for yourself and feel lost at the same time.
After many many years of rebellion, the only way I felt whole again was when I found my savior Jesus. The journey to seek truth can be confusing. I was wrapped up in New Age beliefs, questioned what was real and what wasn't, and I had to unlearn to relearn truth.
Throughout this show, you'll find many conversations around the lessons I've learned through my personal experiences, special guests featuring their breakthrough stories when it comes to addiction, faith, domestic violence, childhood trauma, anxiety, fear, limiting beliefs and so much more!
My hope is that you find a breakthrough story (or many!) throughout the show that you relate to and get encouraged to take the next step towards YOUR breakthrough.