Heal from Toxic Relationships | Self-Confidence, Relationship Boundaries, Red Flags, Trust in God, Healing Trauma
Do you feel like you’re in a constant cycle of toxic relationships? Do you struggle with confidence, finding your worth in what your current boyfriend says about you - no matter how hurtful? Have years of people-pleasing and lack of healthy boundaries left you burnt out and triggering deep emotional wounds? Are you unsure how to trust God in the wake of betrayal and heartbreak? I am so honored that you’re here! This podcast is your go-to resource for healing from unhealthy relationship patterns, building unshakeable confidence in Christ, and discovering your God-given purpose. Whether you’re longing to break free from emotional wounds or preparing your heart for a healthy, Godly marriage, you’re in the right place. Hey, I’m Dani! A Christian life coach, wife, and recovering people-pleaser who spent 10 years trapped in unhealthy, non-committed relationships. I searched for my worth in men, career success, and countless self-help books, but nothing filled the void—until I turned to Christ. Through a Christ-centered healing method, I finally broke free from my past, healed deep emotional wounds, and built my identity in Christ. Now, I’m here to help you do the same! In this podcast, I’ll teach you how to: - Heal from toxic relationships and emotional trauma - Overcome the fear of being alone and build healthy, loving relationships - Establish bold boundaries rooted in God’s truth and love - Feel confident in your God-given purpose, preparing you for a Godly marriage - Address and heal the wounds of abandonment and rejection, finding your true worth in Christ - Deepen your relationship with God, learning how to hear His voice and trust Him fully in every aspect of your life If you’re ready to transform your life, love yourself with confidence, and align your relationships with God’s plan, grab your favorite mocktail and join me! Together, we’ll overshare, overcome, and step into the abundant life God has for you. Next steps: Join the Free Community: http://bit.ly/healtoxicrelationshipsgroup Email Us: support@lovedani.org
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Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt like you’re stuck in a cycle of unhealthy relationships, carrying insecurities that you just can’t seem to shake? Or maybe deep down, you know you’ve got some “pick me” energy, seeking validation from men, settling for less, and wondering if you’re even worthy of the love you desire?
Listen, I get it—been there, done that. But here’s the thing: you don’t have to stay in that place. In today’s episode, we’re unpacking what it really takes to go from insecure in relationships to becoming the confident wife God wants you to be.
So, grab your journal and let’s dive in. This is where we're tackling the ROOT of the issue, not the symptoms so you can actually start healing and stepping into the identity of the secure, confident woman God created you to be.
See you on the inside!
Xo,Dani
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Monday Dec 02, 2024
74 | Break the Cycle of Generational Trauma with Rachel Nelson
Monday Dec 02, 2024
Monday Dec 02, 2024
Hey beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt weighed down by patterns or pain from your past, wondering if they might affect your future relationships? If you're longing to break free from generational trauma and step into the healthy, thriving marriage and family you desire, you're going to love today’s episode with Rachel Nelson!
This conversation gave me the chills—so much goodness to take away from it! I can't wait for you to hear Rachel's steps towards healing from her parent's divorce, forgiveness, and taking full advantage of your single season.
Rachel is a loving wife, business owner, cat mom, the host of This is Me Podcast and soon-to-be boy mom! She's passionate about helping people strengthen their relationship with God and have the courage to share their testimony to advance the Kingdom.
Grab your journal and lean into this powerful episode. You don’t want to miss it!
See you on the inside!
Xo,Dani
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Monday Nov 25, 2024
Monday Nov 25, 2024
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Does it feel like certain people or situations have the power to pull you into an emotional spiral? Maybe you find yourself reacting out of anger or frustration before even realizing what’s happening. Whether it’s someone’s hurtful words, feeling ghosted, or unresolved trauma, the triggers keep coming, and it feels like they have control over you.
I see you. I know how exhausting it is to feel like your emotions are always running the show. You’re not alone in this, and you’re not broken—this is something you can overcome.
In today’s episode, we’re getting to the root of your triggers and unpacking practical, faith-based strategies to help you heal from trauma, master your mind, and stop letting those emotional spirals take over.
Grab your journal, take a deep breath, and let’s work through this together.
Big hugs!Dani
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Monday Nov 18, 2024
Monday Nov 18, 2024
Hi, beautiful! ♥️
Do you find yourself jumping from man to man, staying in relationships you know aren’t going anywhere, or going back to an ex you can’t seem to let go of? Does the thought of being alone feel scary or just…uncomfortable?
In today’s episode, we’re addressing the cycle that keeps you stuck in dead-end relationships and uncovering how to break free for good. I know what it’s like to crave love and validation, to feel seen and wanted, but also to know deep down that this isn’t God’s best for you.
We’ll talk about why you keep running back to those patterns and, more importantly, how to interrupt them, find healing, and discover peace in being alone.
Let’s get you unstuck, sis—you are so much more than a relationship status, and I can’t wait to help you step into that truth today! Let's go!
xoxo,
Dani
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Monday Nov 11, 2024
71 | Silence the Negative Self-Talk & Fear for Good!
Monday Nov 11, 2024
Monday Nov 11, 2024
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Do you constantly battle with thoughts telling you you’re not good enough? Do you feel like fear is running your life? If you’re tired of those voices telling you, “I’m unloveable” or “I’ll never reach my dreams,” you’re not alone.
Today, we're putting the inner negative voice in check so we stop drowing out our faith and letting feear win over our hearts. I'm helping you break free from the hold of negative self-talk and have a mindset rooted in truth, worth, and confidence!
You’ll learn how to spot and silence lies with truth, adjust your focus, and guard your thoughts from spiraling into doubt and comparison. Each step will help you choose faith over fear and anchor yourself in a sense of purpose and self-worth.
You are so loved, so worthy, and so ready for this breakthrough. Let’s go!
xoxo,
Dani
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Monday Nov 04, 2024
Monday Nov 04, 2024
Hey beautiful! ♥️
In today’s episode, I’m giving you a front-row seat to a powerful coaching call with a client who bravely faced deep betrayal from her husband and the challenge of staying true to her faith through it all. She asked to remain anonymous but agreed to share her story so that you could benefit from her journey, her processing, and the revelations Holy Spirit brought to surface as we dug deep together.
You’ll hear us tackle the big question: how can you live in integrity with your faith when you go through such a deep betrayal? As you listen, take a moment to reflect on how you might apply these truths in your own life, especially if you’re navigating doubts, experiencing heartbreak, or wondering how God is working in your situation.
I hope this conversation renews your faith and reminds you that you’re not alone in wrestling with these hard questions. God is with you even in the messiest parts, and healing is possible when we let Him guide us through.
Lots of love!
- Dani
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Monday Oct 28, 2024
69 | Can't Forgive Yourself? 3 Mindset Shifts to Make it Easier
Monday Oct 28, 2024
Monday Oct 28, 2024
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Do you keep replaying those old memories, shaming yourself for mistakes you’ve made, or feeling like your past choices hold you back from the life you want? I know how easily self-condemnation can creep in, especially when you’re trying to make bold moves and step into the woman God is calling you to be.
This episode is all about helping you find freedom from that cycle with three powerful mindset shifts that will make forgiving yourself easier. I promise there’s hope, and there’s a way out of the shame and unforgiveness that keeps holding you back.
You are not defined by your past. Let’s take these steps together so you can release what’s behind you and start stepping boldly into the future God has planned. I’m here with you every step of the way—see you inside!
xoxo,
Dani
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Monday Oct 21, 2024
68 | The Must-Have Mindset to Trust Men Again
Monday Oct 21, 2024
Monday Oct 21, 2024
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever found yourself thinking, "I just can't trust men"? Maybe you’ve been deeply hurt, betrayed, or even reached a point where becoming a "man hater" felt like the only way to protect yourself. I totally get it—I’ve been there too. For years, I believed that all men were untrustworthy and told myself that I didn’t need them at all.
In today’s episode, we’re talking about the mindset shifts you need to break free from that pain and learn how to trust men again. It’s time to heal from past wounds, recognize that not all men are the same, and open your heart to the possibility of healthy, God-honoring relationships.
And most importantly, we’ll talk about how trusting God is the ultimate key to finding peace in your relationships.
Whether you've been hurt by a past relationship or you're carrying wounds from your childhood, you're going to get practical steps to help you start trusting again—while keeping your heart safe in God's hands!
See you inside!
Xo, Dani
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Wednesday Oct 16, 2024
67 | Red Flags or Fixable Issues? How to Know When to Walk Away
Wednesday Oct 16, 2024
Wednesday Oct 16, 2024
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Feeling torn between giving your relationship another shot or walking away? I get it—it’s tough to know if those issues are fixable or if you’re dealing with serious red flags. Are you asking yourself, "Am I giving up too early?" or "Is this something I should be worried about?" Don’t worry, sis, I’ve got you covered!
In this episode, we’re diving deep into those confusing red flags and how to tell the difference between what’s workable and what’s a clear sign to step away. Not every red flag means it's time to leave, but there are some that definitely should make you reconsider.
I’ll be sharing personal stories (spoiler: even I had red flags before marriage!) and helping you recognize when there’s hope for your relationship and when it's time to protect your heart and move on.
If you’re in a relationship or want to be in a healthy one someday, buckle up—this episode is for YOU.
Let’s get into it!
Xo, Dani
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Monday Oct 07, 2024
Monday Oct 07, 2024
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Ever feel like your friendships are changing as you grow closer to God? Are you struggling to keep certain relationships while staying true to your faith?
Navigating friendships while on a spiritual journey can feel so challenging, especially when it seems like the people around you just don’t understand where you’re coming from.
In today’s episode, Brianna Friedman and I are diving deep into how faith can shift your friendships—and what to do when relationships feel out of sync.
We share personal stories and spiritual insights on setting boundaries, dealing with feelings of guilt, and embracing the new season God is calling you into. Together, we’ll walk through practical tips to protect your spiritual growth, let go of friendships that no longer serve you, and find a community of like-minded women who lift you up.
If you’ve been praying for clarity in your relationships or feeling disconnected from friends as you deepen your relationship with God, this episode is for you!
I hope this conversation leaves you feeling confident in your spiritual journey, empowered to set healthy boundaries, and inspired to build faith-based friendships that align with who God is calling you to be.
AND - we have the biggest surprise being announced at the end!!
Xo, Dani
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Your Breakthrough Is Waiting For You
What does it mean to heal? To live a happy life? To feel good?
From a recovering perfectionist who has fought battles with drunkenness, meaningless hookups and one night stands, obsessed with how other's perceived me, trying to find worth in my status after being emotionally and verbally abused in a relationship, completely lost in my identity and seeking for any way to exit reality...
I started Blackouts To Breakthroughs for you.
I know how it feels to think deep thoughts to yourself and never say them out loud. I know how it feels to question your sanity for staying in a toxic relationship. I know how it feels to wonder if this is all life is meant to be. I know how it feels to want more for yourself and feel lost at the same time.
After many many years of rebellion, the only way I felt whole again was when I found my savior Jesus. The journey to seek truth can be confusing. I was wrapped up in New Age beliefs, questioned what was real and what wasn't, and I had to unlearn to relearn truth.
Throughout this show, you'll find many conversations around the lessons I've learned through my personal experiences, special guests featuring their breakthrough stories when it comes to addiction, faith, domestic violence, childhood trauma, anxiety, fear, limiting beliefs and so much more!
My hope is that you find a breakthrough story (or many!) throughout the show that you relate to and get encouraged to take the next step towards YOUR breakthrough.