Heal from Toxic Relationships | Self-Confidence, Relationship Boundaries, Red Flags, Trust in God, Healing Trauma
Do you feel like you’re in a constant cycle of toxic relationships? Do you struggle with confidence, finding your worth in what your current boyfriend says about you - no matter how hurtful? Have years of people-pleasing and lack of healthy boundaries left you burnt out and triggering deep emotional wounds? Are you unsure how to trust God in the wake of betrayal and heartbreak? I am so honored that you’re here! This podcast is your go-to resource for healing from unhealthy relationship patterns, building unshakeable confidence in Christ, and discovering your God-given purpose. Whether you’re longing to break free from emotional wounds or preparing your heart for a healthy, Godly marriage, you’re in the right place. Hey, I’m Dani! A Christian life coach, wife, and recovering people-pleaser who spent 10 years trapped in unhealthy, non-committed relationships. I searched for my worth in men, career success, and countless self-help books, but nothing filled the void—until I turned to Christ. Through a Christ-centered healing method, I finally broke free from my past, healed deep emotional wounds, and built my identity in Christ. Now, I’m here to help you do the same! In this podcast, I’ll teach you how to: - Heal from toxic relationships and emotional trauma - Overcome the fear of being alone and build healthy, loving relationships - Establish bold boundaries rooted in God’s truth and love - Feel confident in your God-given purpose, preparing you for a Godly marriage - Address and heal the wounds of abandonment and rejection, finding your true worth in Christ - Deepen your relationship with God, learning how to hear His voice and trust Him fully in every aspect of your life If you’re ready to transform your life, love yourself with confidence, and align your relationships with God’s plan, grab your favorite mocktail and join me! Together, we’ll overshare, overcome, and step into the abundant life God has for you. Next steps: Join the Free Community: http://bit.ly/healtoxicrelationshipsgroup Email Us: support@lovedani.org
Episodes
Wednesday Mar 08, 2023
Take the Limits Off God & Take Action w/ Delaney Mason
Wednesday Mar 08, 2023
Wednesday Mar 08, 2023
So many times... the worries and distractions of life get in the way of us dreaming. They can make us complacent. We can start to doubt God's promises in His word about how He is a Perfect Father that wants to bless His children with precious gifts. How He is a God who wants to lift you up to glorify His name. How He is a God that can do immeasurably more than you can think or imagine!
My amazing sister, Delaney Mason, comes on the show to talk about taking the limits off of God and to remind you of your purpose. She speaks from a place of passion for Jesus and deliverance from believing that she was the source of her power. Her faith is so beautiful and will rub off on you!
Our hope is that you leave this episode believing that God is a God that can use money, resources, and influence to bring His children back home. He has gifted you with special gifts and talents, not to sit back and wait in fear but to move forward in faith and boldness in who He has created you to be. As Delaney would put it... "Don't squander it!"
Find Delaney here: https://www.instagram.com/delaneymaimason/
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Wednesday Feb 22, 2023
Wake Up Ep.2 | Why God’s Love is the Gateway to Permanent Change
Wednesday Feb 22, 2023
Wednesday Feb 22, 2023
I know you've heard about God's love before, but have you really heard, heard it? This 'really heard' isn't from your parents telling you when you were a child or singing the song 'Jesus Loves Me This I Know'. The 'really heard' is when you KNOW that Jesus died for YOU because He loves YOU.
This isn't a love that can come from anyone else in your life. This is a love that you are missing out on if you haven't 'really heard' or if you haven't accepted God's love for YOU. This is something that you do not want to go another day without hearing, especially if you are someone who is craving permanent change in your life.
In this episode, I share the truth about God's love for you. No matter who you are, what you believe, or where you come from - Jesus loves you and He died for YOU. Join me as we talk about why knowing and understanding God's love for you is the gateway to creating permanent change in your life! That is how you get from where you are to where you want to be. This is where you wake up and pivot!
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Wednesday Feb 08, 2023
How to Get Back Up When it Doesn’t Look Like You Can w/ Dr. LaTissha Graves Nash
Wednesday Feb 08, 2023
Wednesday Feb 08, 2023
Do you feel like you've absolutely hit rock bottom? Does life seem like it won't get any better? Are you questioning how God could possibly be working through what looks like a permanent dark place for you? Is it hard to see beyond your season of grief?
I have one word for this episode - WOW! My sweet friend, Dr. LaTissha Graves Nash has a story that truly brings me to tears. It's not just her story but how she speaks about what she went through with so much wisdom and light being on the other side of it.
LaTissha is a domestic violence survivor, mother of three, wife, author, and Co-founder of Mom and Daughter Marching Against Oppression and of Enough-girlgetup.com. She is a remarkable human being who doesn't shy away from the realness of what she went through. Her vulnerability in sharing intimate moments of pain will help you know that you are not alone in yours. That there is another side to where you are right now. That God's plans to prosper you have NOT changed, no matter your circumstance.
Whether you desperately need hope or need to know how to trust God as you're walking through a wilderness, this is the episode for you! I know you'll not only fall in love with LaTissha, but you will leave this conversation with your faith refreshed and action steps on how to grow through your current circumstance.
Find LaTissha here: https://enough-girlgetup.com/
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Wednesday Feb 01, 2023
Wake Up Ep.1 | The Deep vs The Shallow
Wednesday Feb 01, 2023
Wednesday Feb 01, 2023
After our January Sabbatical - WE ARE BACK, and we're back with a brand new series that hopefully increases your spiritual hunger!
Do you find yourself in the shallow places of your faith? Are you curious about what 'going deeper' in your faith would look like? Not sure how to take the steps necessary to go beyond where you are right now in your relationship with God?
Well, you're in the right place! We're jumping off our new 'Wake Up' series discussing the difference between shallow faith and deep faith and raising awareness about where you currently are and how to get to where you want to be.
Leave your shame, discouragement, fear, worry, and doubt at the door before hitting play - we've always been a come-as-you-are show because we understand that the first step towards real change is self-evaluation. Let's take inventory together, prepare our heart soil for truth, and walk into the deep together!
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Expectation Setting Questions:
What do I want to see God do in 2023?
What do I need to let go off? What do I want to see God fix? What needs to change?
What keeps disappointing me? What am I doing that I wouldn't want my child to emulate?
What am I excited about? If ______ happened, it would fill me with joy. What's in the blank?
Ask God 'What do you want to see in my life in 2023?'
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Wednesday Dec 28, 2022
How to Redesign Yourself and Find Fulfillment w/ January Donovan
Wednesday Dec 28, 2022
Wednesday Dec 28, 2022
Have you ever wondered why you feel stuck in comparison or don't feel fulfilled in your day-to-day life? Are you tired of settling for the bare minimum? Looking for a formula to feel confident in yourself and have a healthy self-image?
Listen in and take notes on this short and value-packed conversation with the founder of The Woman School and The Wholeness Coaching School, January Donovan. January is a #1 best-selling author, an entrepreneur, and a mother of 8 children. She has been training women for over 20 years and spent 15 years training women for free before growing her business from 0 to a multimillion-dollar company reaching 40 countries in under three years.
January brings unique expertise and perspective on how not only to rely on women empowerment alone but equip women with the skillsets and mindset they need to create a meaningful and fulfilling life. What I love the most is how dedicated she is to having a wholesome life that feels good on the inside, while expanding her professional vision with no limits!
Join us on this episode if you want a fresh start for 2023 and learn how you can redesign yourself to be the woman or man you want to become!
Find January Donovan: thttps://www.instagram.com/thewomanschool/ or https://thewomanschool.com/
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Wednesday Dec 21, 2022
Does God Love Me? LISTEN to Know God’s Love!
Wednesday Dec 21, 2022
Wednesday Dec 21, 2022
Do you know how much God truly loves you? Have you thought of God as this God that just wants to punish you? Are you aware of the grace that you personally experience from God unknowingly every single day? With everything you've done, are you wondering... does God still love me?
In short, YES. God loves you! Nothing you do can separate you from God's love. We tend to separate ourselves from God's presence because we don't really understand God's agape (sacrificial) love for us! Your foundation must be built on how much God loves you or you'll be easily swayed by other people or the enemy.
This episode only highlights some evidence of how God loves us and where we can find this truth in scripture. My heart breaks from people drifting away from God or falling into depression because they haven't realized how much God really LOVES them and how to find their freedom in that truth. God never leaves you or stops loving you because of what you've done... we are the ones that leave God. That ends here!
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Wednesday Dec 14, 2022
The Healing Power of Jesus w/ Cancer Survivor Mayte Paz
Wednesday Dec 14, 2022
Wednesday Dec 14, 2022
Wow... just wow. This episode is truly so near and dear to my heart because of my sweet friend's testimony. Her faith and trust in Jesus LITERALLY allowed God to heal her from stage 4 cancer within a year and a half!
Are you doubtful of miracles? Are you currently battling a sickness or storm of some sort? Did you recently get told news that broke your heart? Have you fallen away from God because you think your sin is unforgivable? Hesitant on running back to the arms of Jesus because of your past or present?
THIS IS THE ONE FOR YOU! Mayte shares the lessons she's learned through seasons of blacking out from alcohol, running back to her ex-boyfriend, distancing herself from God after experiencing His realness, and how she fought cancer spiritually! If you need a reminder of who our God is, His power, and how much He loves you, come join us in our girl chat.
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Wednesday Dec 07, 2022
Why Satan Wants You to Think Your Storm is From God
Wednesday Dec 07, 2022
Wednesday Dec 07, 2022
Ever heard or said something like, "God is taking me through this hard season to mold my character" or "God gave me this battle to fight to make me stronger?" Have you believed that God is the reason why you face temptation, sin, sickness, poverty, illness, loss, grief, etc.? Do you question if He is truly absolutely good and only good? Wondering how to overcome the storm you're in?
I don't know about you, but I really believed that God took me through hard seasons to test me and make me stronger. This belief isn't biblical! It's also a tactic from the enemy to make you question God's goodness and love for us. This is a tactic Satan uses because he doesn't want you to see his tricks! If Satan can get you to think the storm you're going through is from God, he can weaken your desire to fight it, decrease your faith in God, and ultimately separate you from God.
In this episode we:
Study scripture to prove that God is absolutely and only good
Expose the #1 trick of the enemy
Equip you with how to fight the enemy
Come to a better understanding of God's character
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Wednesday Nov 30, 2022
Defining Your Worth in the World vs in Christ w/ Taylor Pécot
Wednesday Nov 30, 2022
Wednesday Nov 30, 2022
Are you holding onto pain and rejection from your past? Do you doubt your worth and value? Not sure where you fit in this world? Have the desire to free yourself from the burden of inadequacy and self-doubt?
Taylor, @_Taysymone is so vulnerable in sharing her experience with a defining moment of rejection that caused her to spiral and believe the lies of the enemy to the point of almost taking her life. She struggled with allowing her weight to define her worth and identity. It wasn't until she had a "BUT GOD" moment, that she felt His supernatural love and truth that tore down the lies of the enemy and led her down the path of mental freedom.
This is the episode for you if you need a sister-friend to speak LIFE into you! To remind you how valuable you truly are! To help you take action steps towards beginning this journey of knowing who Christ says you are! It's time to step away from what the value this world puts on you, and rest in what God has spoken over your life.
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Wednesday Nov 23, 2022
Who You Believe God is Determines Your Forever
Wednesday Nov 23, 2022
Wednesday Nov 23, 2022
Are you questioning your faith? Confused about what you believe? Think there isn't a God who loves you unconditionally? Do you really know who God is and what He says about you? Heard about Jesus but don't really know the purpose behind what He did?
I created this episode for the person searching because what you believe or don't believe about God determines what your forever looks like. It's very black and white, and I believe there are people walking this earth lost because they do not know who their creator actually is!
Some paint Him as this evil and religious God who makes up these rules for us to follow and take away our fun. Some paint Him as this weak God who doesn't care about how you live your life and who doesn't want the most abundant life for you. I talk about WHO GOD IS throughout this episode, the truth about us humans, who God has called us to be, and insight into what our two options of forever are.
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Your Breakthrough Is Waiting For You
What does it mean to heal? To live a happy life? To feel good?
From a recovering perfectionist who has fought battles with drunkenness, meaningless hookups and one night stands, obsessed with how other's perceived me, trying to find worth in my status after being emotionally and verbally abused in a relationship, completely lost in my identity and seeking for any way to exit reality...
I started Blackouts To Breakthroughs for you.
I know how it feels to think deep thoughts to yourself and never say them out loud. I know how it feels to question your sanity for staying in a toxic relationship. I know how it feels to wonder if this is all life is meant to be. I know how it feels to want more for yourself and feel lost at the same time.
After many many years of rebellion, the only way I felt whole again was when I found my savior Jesus. The journey to seek truth can be confusing. I was wrapped up in New Age beliefs, questioned what was real and what wasn't, and I had to unlearn to relearn truth.
Throughout this show, you'll find many conversations around the lessons I've learned through my personal experiences, special guests featuring their breakthrough stories when it comes to addiction, faith, domestic violence, childhood trauma, anxiety, fear, limiting beliefs and so much more!
My hope is that you find a breakthrough story (or many!) throughout the show that you relate to and get encouraged to take the next step towards YOUR breakthrough.