Heal from Toxic Relationships | Self-Confidence, Relationship Boundaries, Red Flags, Trust in God, Healing Trauma
Do you feel like you’re in a constant cycle of toxic relationships? Do you struggle with confidence, finding your worth in what your current boyfriend says about you - no matter how hurtful? Have years of people-pleasing and lack of healthy boundaries left you burnt out and triggering deep emotional wounds? Are you unsure how to trust God in the wake of betrayal and heartbreak? I am so honored that you’re here! This podcast is your go-to resource for healing from unhealthy relationship patterns, building unshakeable confidence in Christ, and discovering your God-given purpose. Whether you’re longing to break free from emotional wounds or preparing your heart for a healthy, Godly marriage, you’re in the right place. Hey, I’m Dani! A Christian life coach, wife, and recovering people-pleaser who spent 10 years trapped in unhealthy, non-committed relationships. I searched for my worth in men, career success, and countless self-help books, but nothing filled the void—until I turned to Christ. Through a Christ-centered healing method, I finally broke free from my past, healed deep emotional wounds, and built my identity in Christ. Now, I’m here to help you do the same! In this podcast, I’ll teach you how to: - Heal from toxic relationships and emotional trauma - Overcome the fear of being alone and build healthy, loving relationships - Establish bold boundaries rooted in God’s truth and love - Feel confident in your God-given purpose, preparing you for a Godly marriage - Address and heal the wounds of abandonment and rejection, finding your true worth in Christ - Deepen your relationship with God, learning how to hear His voice and trust Him fully in every aspect of your life If you’re ready to transform your life, love yourself with confidence, and align your relationships with God’s plan, grab your favorite mocktail and join me! Together, we’ll overshare, overcome, and step into the abundant life God has for you. Next steps: Join the Free Community: http://bit.ly/healtoxicrelationshipsgroup Email Us: support@lovedani.org
Episodes
Wednesday May 01, 2024
42 | Struggling with Feeling "Not Enough"? Steal My 3 No-Fail Confidence Boosters
Wednesday May 01, 2024
Wednesday May 01, 2024
Ever find yourself drowning in the whispers of "you're not enough"? If that's ringing painfully true, you're not alone! Today, we're diving deep into my three no-fail confidence boosters to shake off those shadows of doubt and step into the light of your true worth.
Whether you're feeling stuck in a cycle of negativity, striving to heal from past traumas, or just needing a little encouragement to push through your current boundaries, this episode is your first step toward building a more confident and fulfilled you.
I pray this episode empowers you to redefine your identity and live confidently in your true worth.
Lots of love,
Dani
Thursday Jul 13, 2023
Thursday Jul 13, 2023
Join us for the second episode of our empowering relationship series with the amazing Emma Jarboe. In this eye-opening discussion, we explore the crucial topic of red flags and dealbreakers in a relationship. Discover the importance of recognizing warning signs and gain practical advice on how to navigate them with wisdom and grace.
Together, we'll dive into the common red flags that may arise in a relationship, shedding light on behaviors and patterns that could indicate potential challenges ahead. We'll provide insights on how to differentiate between minor concerns and serious dealbreakers, empowering you to make informed decisions about your own well-being and happiness.
In this episode, we'll equip you with strategies to address red flags and communicate your concerns effectively. Learn how to navigate difficult conversations, set healthy boundaries, and prioritize your emotional, spiritual, and mental well-being. Our goal is to empower you to make choices that align with your values and foster a healthy, fulfilling relationship with God in the center.
Whether you're currently in a relationship or looking to embark on one, this episode will provide invaluable insights and guidance. Join us as we uncover the red flags, explore the necessary steps to take when they arise, and empower you to create a relationship built on trust, respect, and mutual happiness.
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Wednesday Jun 28, 2023
40 | Why Being with a Godly Man is VITAL for Your Journey w/ Emma Jarboe
Wednesday Jun 28, 2023
Wednesday Jun 28, 2023
Join me and my dear friend Emma Jarboe in this fun, empowering, and honestly, one of my favorite episodes as we dive into the profound importance of being with a man who is fully surrendered to God. Together, we explore the transformative impact this has on your relationship and personal growth as a woman. Through engaging discussions on communication, conflict resolution, and creating a safe and nurturing environment, we uncover the invaluable role that a God-fearing man plays in fulfilling your purpose!
Get ready to be inspired as we share our candid perspectives, practical advice, and juicy insights on gaining necessary self-awareness and building a thriving, God-centered partnership. Whether you're already married, in a relationship, or on a journey to find your life partner, this insightful and possibly controversial conversation is a must-listen. We equip you with valuable tools to navigate the challenges and experience the blessings of a relationship grounded in surrender to God.
Don't miss out on this transformative episode - I promise you'll be glad that you did! Tune in now and discover the secrets to creating a fulfilling, God-centered relationship that sets you on a path to purpose and joy.
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Wednesday Jun 14, 2023
How to Embrace Growth through Failure in Your Christian Walk
Wednesday Jun 14, 2023
Wednesday Jun 14, 2023
Join me in this deeply personal Christian podcast episode as we explore the journey of overcoming failure in our Christian walk. I had what I consider a FAIL this past weekend and felt like the Lord wanted me to share what I learned from it.
If you've ever felt discouraged by your own failures or overwhelmed by the weight of your emotions, this episode offers hope, encouragement, and comfort in knowing that you're not alone! This experience reminded me of the importance of self-awareness, staying humble, and the necessity of extending grace to both ourselves and others.
This episode reminds you to embrace the truth that God is your ultimate source of comfort and that there truly is nothing that will fill your soul more than His word. As we navigate the trials and tribulations of life, we'll learn to lean on Him - finding peace, healing, and restoration in His unwavering love and presence.
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Wednesday May 31, 2023
Transformed by Grace: Walking in Boldness, Freedom, and Confidence
Wednesday May 31, 2023
Wednesday May 31, 2023
Hi there, my beautiful friend! Are you yearning to walk in boldness, freedom, and unwavering confidence, regardless of your past? Join me in this study as we dive deep into the life of Saul and discover powerful lessons that you can apply to your personal journey.
Through Acts Chapter 9, we explore Saul's remarkable transformation into the apostle Paul and how his story can inspire us to embrace our true identity in Christ. Together, we'll uncover practical insights that empower us to overcome our past mistakes, let go of shame, and live with God-sized purpose and confidence.
Join me on this transformative journey as we learn to walk in the liberating power of God's grace. Let's discover how embracing forgiveness, our true identity, and God's purpose can lead us to a life of total freedom and confidence. This episode will inspire you to step into a new chapter of your life, fully embracing the incredible person God has called you to be.
Free Dream Session: Application Form
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Wednesday May 17, 2023
Using Psalm 27 to Overcome Anxiety and Gain Confidence in God’s Promises
Wednesday May 17, 2023
Wednesday May 17, 2023
Hi beautiful!
Have you ever felt attacked by random anxiety? Are obsessive thoughts stealing your peace and preventing you from having your good day? Trust me, I've been there too. But here's the incredible news... Psalm 27 holds the key to finding rest in God's loving embrace through His Word.
You see, Scripture teaches us that our confidence and comfort come from God Himself. Even though we often seek wisdom from others first, it's in seeking God that we find unwavering support. In this episode, we'll journey together, uncovering the comforting truths and profound lessons woven into David's heartfelt writing.
Join me as we explore how to let go of anxiety, allowing it to melt away, while immersing ourselves in the comforting promises of Psalm 27. I wholeheartedly believe that embracing these truths can exchange our anxiety for unshakable confidence and genuine peace in God's faithful presence.
Free Dream Session: Application Form
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Wednesday May 03, 2023
Overcoming Disappointment: How to Dream Again and Move Forward w/ Rebecca Bradley
Wednesday May 03, 2023
Wednesday May 03, 2023
Wondering how to keep going when life keeps getting you down? Do you feel overwhelmed by the disappointment you feel? Are you longing to dream again but not sure how much left you have in you?
In this episode, my sweet friend Rebecca and I explore overcoming disappointment and dreaming again through faith in God. We discuss the biblical perspective on dwelling on the past and how it can impact our day-to-day. We also provide practical tips and strategies for overcoming disappointment through reading the Word, surrendering, and trusting in God's plan.
Rebecca shares her testimony of going through a divorce and how that robbed her of her joy, peace, and worth. She offers guidance on finding hope and purpose in the midst of disappointment and discerning God's appointments in our lives. Whether you're dealing with a personal setback, a failed ministry, or a major life change, this episode will encourage you to turn to God and trust in His promises for your life. Join us as we explore the transformative power of faith and how to cultivate a resilient and hopeful spirit in Christ!
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Wednesday Apr 19, 2023
Wake Up Ep.4 | Living by the Flesh vs Living by the Spirit
Wednesday Apr 19, 2023
Wednesday Apr 19, 2023
Feel controlled by your sin? Need help overcoming temptations? Are you unsure what it looks like to live a surrendered life to Jesus and to live by the Spirit? Do you desire to live in the freedom that Jesus died for?
In this episode, we dive into the book of Romans and Galatians to explore what it means to live by the flesh versus living by the Spirit of God. We study how God calls us to live and how this choice determines this life + your eternal life.
We examine how living by the Spirit can set us free from the bondage of sin and allow us to experience the abundant and free life that God intended for us. We have reflection moments together as we read scripture, and I share with you questions to hopefully lead you to cultivate a life led by the Spirit and overcome the temptations that can lead us astray.
I pray after this episode you see that Jesus' sacrifice on the cross made it possible for us to live in true freedom, and how we can claim this freedom in our daily lives. Join me as we explore the profound difference between living by the flesh vs the Spirit and discover how to live the life God intended for you.
Clarity Call: Application Form
Wednesday Apr 05, 2023
How to Handle a Season of Spiritual Dryness w/ Ali King
Wednesday Apr 05, 2023
Wednesday Apr 05, 2023
A great conversation with a sweet friend of mine, Ali King, about spiritual dryness and what to do when you're in a 'dry season'.
We know it can be frustrating when you've experienced the amazing goodness of God and then find yourself in a place where you feel like you aren't hearing or feeling Him! You feel lonely, confused, abandoned, or maybe even like you want to give up...
BUT there's hope!! Please listen to this episode if you need encouragement and ideas on what to do while you're in a season of spiritual dryness. We love you!
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Wednesday Mar 22, 2023
Wake Up Ep.3 | How to Produce Fruit in Your Life
Wednesday Mar 22, 2023
Wednesday Mar 22, 2023
Jesus tells us that we will know His true disciples by the fruit they bear (Matthew 7:20, John 15:8). Wondering how to produce the spiritual fruits Jesus talks about? Unsure of what the fruits are? Feel like your relationship with God or prayer life is kinda boring? (hint: it shouldn't be!)
In this episode, we dive into the scriptures to study Jesus's teachings to His disciples about people who produce fruit and those who don't. You will walk away from this study understanding the importance of seeing evidence of fruit being produced in your life, what the pruning process is like, and how you can abide in Christ to produce more fruit.
Let's fall more in love with Jesus together!
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Your Breakthrough Is Waiting For You
What does it mean to heal? To live a happy life? To feel good?
From a recovering perfectionist who has fought battles with drunkenness, meaningless hookups and one night stands, obsessed with how other's perceived me, trying to find worth in my status after being emotionally and verbally abused in a relationship, completely lost in my identity and seeking for any way to exit reality...
I started Blackouts To Breakthroughs for you.
I know how it feels to think deep thoughts to yourself and never say them out loud. I know how it feels to question your sanity for staying in a toxic relationship. I know how it feels to wonder if this is all life is meant to be. I know how it feels to want more for yourself and feel lost at the same time.
After many many years of rebellion, the only way I felt whole again was when I found my savior Jesus. The journey to seek truth can be confusing. I was wrapped up in New Age beliefs, questioned what was real and what wasn't, and I had to unlearn to relearn truth.
Throughout this show, you'll find many conversations around the lessons I've learned through my personal experiences, special guests featuring their breakthrough stories when it comes to addiction, faith, domestic violence, childhood trauma, anxiety, fear, limiting beliefs and so much more!
My hope is that you find a breakthrough story (or many!) throughout the show that you relate to and get encouraged to take the next step towards YOUR breakthrough.