Heal from Toxic Relationships | Self-Confidence, Relationship Boundaries, Red Flags, Trust in God, Healing Trauma
Do you feel like you’re in a constant cycle of toxic relationships? Do you struggle with confidence, finding your worth in what your current boyfriend says about you - no matter how hurtful? Have years of people-pleasing and lack of healthy boundaries left you burnt out and triggering deep emotional wounds? Are you unsure how to trust God in the wake of betrayal and heartbreak? I am so honored that you’re here! This podcast is your go-to resource for healing from unhealthy relationship patterns, building unshakeable confidence in Christ, and discovering your God-given purpose. Whether you’re longing to break free from emotional wounds or preparing your heart for a healthy, Godly marriage, you’re in the right place. Hey, I’m Dani! A Christian life coach, wife, and recovering people-pleaser who spent 10 years trapped in unhealthy, non-committed relationships. I searched for my worth in men, career success, and countless self-help books, but nothing filled the void—until I turned to Christ. Through a Christ-centered healing method, I finally broke free from my past, healed deep emotional wounds, and built my identity in Christ. Now, I’m here to help you do the same! In this podcast, I’ll teach you how to: - Heal from toxic relationships and emotional trauma - Overcome the fear of being alone and build healthy, loving relationships - Establish bold boundaries rooted in God’s truth and love - Feel confident in your God-given purpose, preparing you for a Godly marriage - Address and heal the wounds of abandonment and rejection, finding your true worth in Christ - Deepen your relationship with God, learning how to hear His voice and trust Him fully in every aspect of your life If you’re ready to transform your life, love yourself with confidence, and align your relationships with God’s plan, grab your favorite mocktail and join me! Together, we’ll overshare, overcome, and step into the abundant life God has for you. Next steps: Join the Free Community: http://bit.ly/healtoxicrelationshipsgroup Email Us: support@lovedani.org
Episodes
Monday Jul 08, 2024
Monday Jul 08, 2024
Hi beautiful!
Are you struggling to love yourself again after a hard breakup? Do you feel like you're not good enough? Have you been speaking down on yourself... low-key feeling like you hate the body you're in or the person you are?
Listen sister, you are so loved and so worthy! I need you to join me for today's episode where I share the one most powerful thing you can start doing today to stop the negative self-talk and start believing that you are a beautiful, valuable, and powerful woman!
I pray you leave feeling encouraged and equipped to implement this one small (but mighty) habit to build your self-love + self-worth!
Love you oh so much!
Dani
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Monday Jul 01, 2024
51 | Stuck in a Rut? 3 Steps to Enter Your 'Healed Girl Era'
Monday Jul 01, 2024
Monday Jul 01, 2024
Hi beautiful!
Are you stuck in a rut or standstill, unsure how to move in the direction God has for you? Do you wish so badly that you could finally heal and become this better version of yourself? Do you feel like you've lost yourself since your last relationship and don't know how to out of the funk you're in?
Today is all about setting new intentions for this fresh, new month ahead! I share how you can take control of your narrative ASAP, so you become the hero of your own story (in addition to Jesus of course).
It's time to leave the limiting beliefs, negative self-talk, and toxic habits behind. You can decide to change your life TODAY with this simple 3 step method to set your 'healed girl' intentions for the month.
Love you oh so much!
Dani
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Monday Jun 24, 2024
Monday Jun 24, 2024
Hi beautiful!
Do you feel super lonely when you watch all your friends around you start getting married and starting families? Are you questioning if being a wife and mom will ever be your reality? Having a hard time trusting God through this waiting period?
Maybe you're even... feeling a bit hopeless?
In this episode, I share three things you can start working on (as soon as today) to change your reality! Trust me on this, you don't want this episode to be just another podcast you listen to - This is the sauce on how to have hope, joy, and peace again in your current situation.
Love you!
Dani
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Monday Jun 17, 2024
49 | Wish You Could Move On After Your Breakup? The Top 3 Must-NOTs
Monday Jun 17, 2024
Monday Jun 17, 2024
Feeling stuck in the pain after a breakup? Wondering why it's so hard to move on, even though you know you deserve better? Tired of the spiraling thoughts that keep you relieving the pain and from feeling happy again?In this episode, we dive into the top 3 things you must NOT do if you want to truly heal and move forward.Whether you're feeling frustrated, self-conscious, or bitter, this episode will help you navigate this painful chapter and step into the hopeful future God has for you.
Lots of love,Dani
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Monday Jun 10, 2024
48 | How to 'Get Over' Trauma & Be Ready for a Godly Relationship
Monday Jun 10, 2024
Monday Jun 10, 2024
Hi beautiful!
Ever wonder how to heal from past trauma and prepare yourself for a healthy & godly relationship? Struggling to let go of the pain and fully trust again? Searching for ways to heal that align with your Christian faith?
I share practical, biblical-based steps to overcome trauma and prepare your heart for a godly relationship. Whether you're working through past hurts, seeking spiritual growth, or looking to strengthen your future relationships, this episode will help you move forward with forgiveness and faith.
Praying this episode gives you peace and prepares you for the love God has for you.
Lots of love,
Dani
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Monday Jun 03, 2024
47 | Kick Shame & Regret to the Curb in 3, 2, 1...
Monday Jun 03, 2024
Monday Jun 03, 2024
Hi beautiful!
A little birdie told me you've been feeling weighed down by shame and regret lately...
Have you been overwhelmed by regret and shame from your past? Do you constantly criticize yourself for past mistakes? Are you praying but feel like the things you did are too bad for God to forgive?
Today is all about accepting forgiveness and how to be free from shame & regret so you can walk out God's purpose for your life!
Whether you've been beating yourself up for something you did in the past, living with secrets that are eating you up inside, or just needing a sister to remind you of the power of the gospel, this episode is what you need to find freedom, acceptance, and love for yourself again.
Lots of love,Dani
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Monday May 27, 2024
46 | STOP the Toxic Relationship Revolving Door with My 3-Step Process
Monday May 27, 2024
Monday May 27, 2024
Hi beautiful!
Do you find yourself in a cycle of unhealthy relationships, desperately wanting to stop? Are you afraid of ending up in a relationship like your parents? Still unsure how to not let your past trauma affect your future relationships? You want to stop the negative relationship cycles so you don't pass it down to the next generation.
There is a way to STOP the toxic relationship patterns, even when you haven't fully healed yet. In this episode, I'm giving you my 3-step process that I used to end the toxic cycles for good. Putting these 3 simple things into action will help you 'level up' as a woman of God and give you the clarity you're looking for.
I'm excited to help you identify what you need to work on to help you become better, so you stop settling for less than God's best!
Love you lots!
Dani
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Monday May 20, 2024
45 | 5 Ways the Fear of Getting Hurt is Blocking Love from Your Life
Monday May 20, 2024
Monday May 20, 2024
Join me on my back patio for a punchy episode on the five ways the fear of getting hurt is blocking love from your life. I share how hardened hearts, emotional walls, and self-sabotage can keep us from experiencing true, God-centered love. How do I know? I've been there, sis!
I share how to identify these signs, why they block love from your life, and how to overcome them. Whether you're single, dating, or married, tune in and take a step toward healing with God and building healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
xoxo,
Dani
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Monday May 13, 2024
44 | Doubt that God is Listening? The ONE thing that helped me hear from Him
Monday May 13, 2024
Monday May 13, 2024
Ever felt too lost in the busyness of life to be able to hear from God? If you're wrestling with the mystery of how to hear from God, know that you're not alone! Today, I share the ONE thing that helps me hear from God every single time (even when I feel distant from Him).
Whether you're a new believer or have been walking with God for some time, these 8 steps will help you tune in to the whispers of the Holy Spirit midst your busy schedule.
I pray this episode gives you new hope and makes drawing near to Jesus simple for you to do!
Lots of love,
Dani
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Monday May 06, 2024
43 | 7 Tips to Finally Heal Trauma (No Self-Help Books Needed!)
Monday May 06, 2024
Monday May 06, 2024
Hey, beauty!
Struggling with past hurts and looking for a way out of the cycle? Well, you're in the right place! In today’s episode, we're skipping the self-help aisle and diving straight into healing with a good dose of soul-searching and some solid support from friends and faith.
I'm not only sharing what caused my 'wake-up call' to start healing, but I've packed this episode with the exact steps I did that got me out of the unhealed, toxic rut.
Whether it's big-time trauma or those little stings from way back when, this episode is all about getting you on a Biblically-rooted path to healing, purpose, and personal growth.
I pray this episode inspires and equips you to start a new chapter in your healing journey!
Xoxo,
Dani
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Your Breakthrough Is Waiting For You
What does it mean to heal? To live a happy life? To feel good?
From a recovering perfectionist who has fought battles with drunkenness, meaningless hookups and one night stands, obsessed with how other's perceived me, trying to find worth in my status after being emotionally and verbally abused in a relationship, completely lost in my identity and seeking for any way to exit reality...
I started Blackouts To Breakthroughs for you.
I know how it feels to think deep thoughts to yourself and never say them out loud. I know how it feels to question your sanity for staying in a toxic relationship. I know how it feels to wonder if this is all life is meant to be. I know how it feels to want more for yourself and feel lost at the same time.
After many many years of rebellion, the only way I felt whole again was when I found my savior Jesus. The journey to seek truth can be confusing. I was wrapped up in New Age beliefs, questioned what was real and what wasn't, and I had to unlearn to relearn truth.
Throughout this show, you'll find many conversations around the lessons I've learned through my personal experiences, special guests featuring their breakthrough stories when it comes to addiction, faith, domestic violence, childhood trauma, anxiety, fear, limiting beliefs and so much more!
My hope is that you find a breakthrough story (or many!) throughout the show that you relate to and get encouraged to take the next step towards YOUR breakthrough.