Heal from Toxic Relationships | Self-Confidence, Relationship Boundaries, Red Flags, Trust in God, Healing Trauma
The Healing Oasis for Christian Woman ***TOP 2% GLOBAL PODCAST*** Do you feel like you’re in a constant cycle of toxic relationships? Do you struggle with confidence, finding your worth in what your current boyfriend says about you - no matter how hurtful? Have years of people-pleasing and lack of healthy boundaries left you burnt out and triggering deep emotional wounds? Are you unsure how to trust God in the wake of betrayal and heartbreak? I am so honored that you’re here! This podcast is your go-to resource for healing from unhealthy relationship patterns, building unshakeable confidence in Christ, and discovering your God-given purpose. Whether you’re longing to break free from emotional wounds or preparing your heart for a healthy, Godly marriage, you’re in the right place. Hey, I’m Dani! A Christian life coach, wife, and recovering people-pleaser who spent 10 years trapped in unhealthy, non-committed relationships. I searched for my worth in men, career success, and countless self-help books, but nothing filled the void—until I turned to Christ. Through a Christ-centered healing method, I finally broke free from my past, healed deep emotional wounds, and built my identity in Christ. Now, I’m here to help you do the same! In this podcast, I’ll teach you how to: - Heal from toxic relationships and emotional trauma - Overcome the fear of being alone and build healthy, loving relationships - Establish bold boundaries rooted in God’s truth and love - Feel confident in your God-given purpose, preparing you for a Godly marriage - Address and heal the wounds of abandonment and rejection, finding your true worth in Christ - Deepen your relationship with God, learning how to hear His voice and trust Him fully in every aspect of your life If you’re ready to transform your life, love yourself with confidence, and align your relationships with God’s plan, grab your favorite mocktail and join me! Together, we’ll overshare, overcome, and step into the abundant life God has for you. Next steps: Join The Healing Circle (free community!): https://whop.com/thehealingcircle/ Email Us: support@lovedani.org
The Healing Oasis for Christian Woman ***TOP 2% GLOBAL PODCAST*** Do you feel like you’re in a constant cycle of toxic relationships? Do you struggle with confidence, finding your worth in what your current boyfriend says about you - no matter how hurtful? Have years of people-pleasing and lack of healthy boundaries left you burnt out and triggering deep emotional wounds? Are you unsure how to trust God in the wake of betrayal and heartbreak? I am so honored that you’re here! This podcast is your go-to resource for healing from unhealthy relationship patterns, building unshakeable confidence in Christ, and discovering your God-given purpose. Whether you’re longing to break free from emotional wounds or preparing your heart for a healthy, Godly marriage, you’re in the right place. Hey, I’m Dani! A Christian life coach, wife, and recovering people-pleaser who spent 10 years trapped in unhealthy, non-committed relationships. I searched for my worth in men, career success, and countless self-help books, but nothing filled the void—until I turned to Christ. Through a Christ-centered healing method, I finally broke free from my past, healed deep emotional wounds, and built my identity in Christ. Now, I’m here to help you do the same! In this podcast, I’ll teach you how to: - Heal from toxic relationships and emotional trauma - Overcome the fear of being alone and build healthy, loving relationships - Establish bold boundaries rooted in God’s truth and love - Feel confident in your God-given purpose, preparing you for a Godly marriage - Address and heal the wounds of abandonment and rejection, finding your true worth in Christ - Deepen your relationship with God, learning how to hear His voice and trust Him fully in every aspect of your life If you’re ready to transform your life, love yourself with confidence, and align your relationships with God’s plan, grab your favorite mocktail and join me! Together, we’ll overshare, overcome, and step into the abundant life God has for you. Next steps: Join The Healing Circle (free community!): https://whop.com/thehealingcircle/ Email Us: support@lovedani.org
Episodes
Sunday Nov 30, 2025
Sunday Nov 30, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever wondered why certain moments hit you so hard, so fast, and so deeply? Maybe a comment, a tone of voice, or even a small inconvenience sends you into panic, anger, or shutdown and afterward you think, “Why did I react that way?”
If triggers feel like they control you more than you control them, this episode is for you! I’m walking you through the 5-step method I shared in the HealHer Sisterhood to master your triggers so you can stop reacting out of old wounds and start responding from a healed, grounded, Holy Spirit-centered place.
These steps will help you slow down the emotional spiral, understand what’s really happening beneath the surface, and choose a healthier response in the moment.
So grab your journal and let's talk about it! See you on the inside!
Xo,Dani
HEALHER SISTERHOOD:
https://healher.thrivecart.com/community/
EMAIL US: hello@healherministries.com
Monday Nov 17, 2025
118 | 3 Myths About Healing We Wish We Knew Sooner w/ Anna Bates
Monday Nov 17, 2025
Monday Nov 17, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever been doing “all the right things” on your healing journey… but still felt stuck, confused, or like something just isn’t working? Maybe you’ve unknowingly believed some of the healing myths that sound good, feel comforting in the moment, but actually keep you from moving forward. Trust me you’re not alone, and today we’re clearing all of that up!
In this episode, Anna and I are breaking down the 3 myths about healing we wish we knew sooner — the ones that held us back, kept us spiraling, and made us think healing was harder than it actually had to be. We’re exposing the lies that keep women stuck in cycles, and replacing them with truth, clarity, and the practical understanding you need to finally make real progress.
We’re diving into what healing really requires... not perfection, not pretending, not “waiting it out", but learning to tend to your wounds with God, embracing the identity He’s building in you, and letting yourself receive support along the way. Healing isn’t a finish line, it’s a process.
Grab your journal, get cozy, and let’s talk about what healing actually looks like… so you can step into the freedom, confidence, and wholeness God wants to lead you into.
See you on the inside!
Xo,Dani
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HEALHER MINISTRIES YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/CHytnIgSylw?si=sCvonU4JNXLu9nnn
HEALHER SISTERHOOD:
https://healher.thrivecart.com/sisterhood/
Monday Nov 10, 2025
117 | The Hidden Reason You Keep Playing Small and Settling for Less
Monday Nov 10, 2025
Monday Nov 10, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt like you’re holding yourself back? Like you know there’s more in you, but something keeps making you shrink, second-guess yourself, or settle for less?
If that’s you, today’s episode is going to open your eyes to the hidden reason you keep playing small and how to finally break free from it. I’m walking you through 3 major blocks that keep women stuck:
Not knowing your purpose
Seeing everyone else’s value but not your own
And living a counterfeit version of your life that God didn't design for you
We’ll talk about how each of these roots keeps you from walking confidently in your purpose, and how to start seeing yourself the way God sees you - chosen, equipped, and called for such a time as this.
If you’re ready to stop shrinking and start showing up as the woman God created you to be… this one’s for you.
Grab your journal, get comfy, and let’s get it!
Xo,Dani
HEALHER SISTERHOOD:
https://healher.thrivecart.com/community/
GOD-ROOTED CONFIDENCE ROADMAP: https://healher.thrivecart.com/roadmap/
COME SAY HI ON IG: https://instagram.com/lovedanijackson
Xo,Dani
Monday Nov 03, 2025
Monday Nov 03, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you been feeling stuck? Like no matter how hard you try to move forward, something keeps you back in the same cycles of disappointment, doubt, or toxic patterns? Maybe you’re realizing that what’s really keeping you stuck isn’t your circumstances… it’s unhealed pain from your past.
In this episode, we’re talking about what happens when you avoid healing and how it keeps you from walking in your God-given purpose. I’m sharing real stories from my own life and how unhealed wounds shaped the way I saw myself, God, and my worth.
You’ll learn how healing restores your mind, emotions, and spirit, and why it’s key to walking confidently in your purpose. We’ll talk about how to invite Jesus into your healing process, shift your perspective, and finally start living from a place of freedom instead of fear.
If you’re ready to stop feeling stuck and start walking in purpose, this episode is for YOU. Grab your journal, get comfy, and let’s get it!
Xo,Dani
NOV 9TH FREE MASTERCLASS:
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GOD-ROOTED CONFIDENCE ROADMAP: https://healher.thrivecart.com/roadmap/
COME SAY HI ON IG: https://instagram.com/lovedanijackson
Monday Oct 27, 2025
115 | Feeling Behind? The Truth About Why God Has You Hidden Right Now
Monday Oct 27, 2025
Monday Oct 27, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever looked at your life and thought, “Why does it feel like nothing’s working?” Maybe it feels like you’re doing all the right things but still not seeing the breakthrough you’ve been praying for. You start wondering if you missed it, if God forgot about you, or if you’re just not “there” yet...
But what if your “problem” isn’t actually a problem at all?
In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful message from a live training I hosted for the women inside my coaching community - and we’re talking about how your perspective shapes your peace, your confidence, and your purpose.
You’ll learn how to start seeing your situation from Heaven’s point of view, why hidden seasons are actually preparation, and how to shift from frustration to faith when life doesn’t look the way you thought it would.
If you’ve been feeling stuck, overlooked, or behind, this one’s going to breathe fresh hope into your spirit. Grab your journal, get comfy, and let’s get it!
Xo,Dani
NOV 9TH FREE MASTERCLASS:
https://healher.myflodesk.com/masterclass
GOD-ROOTED CONFIDENCE ROADMAP: https://healher.thrivecart.com/roadmap/
COME SAY HI ON IG: https://instagram.com/lovedanijackson
Monday Oct 20, 2025
Monday Oct 20, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt inadequate... Like you’re not smart enough, not capable enough, or maybe just not as far along as you “should” be? Maybe you find yourself second-guessing everything you do, stuck in a loop of self-doubt, and sabotaging the very blessings you’ve been praying for.
If that all hits home, today’s episode is for you. I’m bringing you inside a powerful faith-based coaching session with one of my students who opened up about battling insecurity and struggling to see her identity in Christ.
In this session, we walk through what’s really happening when you believe lies about your worth and how to start breaking those spiritual agreements that keep you stuck. You’ll also hear the exact Christian confidence exercise I gave her (and now to you!) to help you start seeing yourself the way God sees you.
See you on the inside!
Xo,Dani
NOV 9TH FREE MASTERCLASS:
https://healher.myflodesk.com/masterclass
GOD-ROOTED CONFIDENCE ROADMAP: https://healher.thrivecart.com/roadmap/
COME SAY HI ON IG: https://instagram.com/lovedanijackson
Monday Oct 13, 2025
113 | You Want Confidence, But You’re Still Thinking Like the Old You
Monday Oct 13, 2025
Monday Oct 13, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you try, you’re just not seeing the growth or confidence you’ve been praying for? Maybe you're reading the Word, showing up, staying busy, but still wondering why things aren’t taking root in your life.
In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into the Parable of the Sower and how it reveals what’s really going on beneath the surface of our mindset, our faith, and our confidence. Spoiler: it’s not about doing more - it’s about cultivating the kind of soil in your life that can actually hold the seeds God is planting.
We’ll talk about how your mindset is the soil that determines your harvest, what the four types of “soul soil” are and how they show up in our everyday thoughts and habits, and why you might feel stuck even when you’re doing all the “right” things.
So grab your journal, get comfy, and let’s talk about how to become the kind of woman who doesn’t just hear the Word but lives it, roots it, and multiplies it.
See you on the inside!Xo,Dani
GOD-ROOTED CONFIDENCE ROADMAP: https://healher.thrivecart.com/roadmap/
COME SAY HI ON IG: https://instagram.com/lovedanijackson
Monday Oct 06, 2025
112 | The One Question I Asked God that Helped Me Find My Identity
Monday Oct 06, 2025
Monday Oct 06, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever struggled to understand who God created you to be? Maybe you've been googling... "How do I feel confident in myself?" or "How do I find who I am?" or "How do I find my identity in Christ?"
If you’re in the middle of trying to discover your identity, this episode is for you! I'm sharing the one simple question I asked God that completely changed how I see myself - and how you can ask it too. We’re talking about what it actually means to stand as a daughter of the King, pick up your authority, and stop comparing yourself to who the world says you should be.
By the end of this episode, you’ll have a practical way to hear from God about who YOU are and start walking confidently in that truth.
So grab your journal, find a quiet space, and let’s invite Him in. He’s ready to remind you of exactly who He created you to be.
Xoxo,Dani
GOD-ROOTED CONFIDENCE ROADMAP: https://healher.thrivecart.com/roadmap/
COME SAY HI ON IG: https://instagram.com/lovedanijackson
Monday Sep 29, 2025
Monday Sep 29, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
If you've ended things with your ex but still feel drawn to him, and you're trying to be strong enough not to go back...
Or if you've found yourself caught in a cycle with him, but deep down you want to be free... Here are the five steps to finally break free from him emotionally AND spiritually!
We're talking all things soul ties (from a biblical perspective), so you'll understand why you're so attached and how to detach—or really sever the tie in the spirit, because that's what it takes.
Grab your journal and let's dive in!
Xoxo,Dani
GOD-ROOTED CONFIDENCE ROADMAP: https://healher.thrivecart.com/roadmap/
COME SAY HI ON IG: https://instagram.com/lovedanijackson
Monday Sep 22, 2025
110 | Keep Ignoring Red Flags? Rewire Your Mindset for Healthy Love
Monday Sep 22, 2025
Monday Sep 22, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt like you’re stuck in a cycle of unhealthy relationships and for some reason you keep attracting the same type of man, just in a different body? Or maybe deep down, you know you deal with low self-esteem and low standards but you're unsure how to raise them? You find yourself confusing love and security with attention and familiarity.
Trust me, I definitely get it but that ends here. There's a reason they say you find yourself dating someone just like your parents. It's unfortunate that we aren't taught relationship skills or how to develop the skill of honest reflection so we can stop subconsciously attracting people that aren't good for us...
But this episode is going to teach you how to raise your standards, strengthen your communication and identify red flags quicker - Grab your journal and let’s dive in.
See you on the inside!
Xo,Dani
REGISTER FOR SEPT 28TH FREE MASTERCLASS: https://healherministries.com/masterclass

Your Breakthrough Is Waiting For You
What does it mean to heal? To live a happy life? To feel good?
From a recovering perfectionist who has fought battles with drunkenness, meaningless hookups and one night stands, obsessed with how other's perceived me, trying to find worth in my status after being emotionally and verbally abused in a relationship, completely lost in my identity and seeking for any way to exit reality...
I started Blackouts To Breakthroughs for you.
I know how it feels to think deep thoughts to yourself and never say them out loud. I know how it feels to question your sanity for staying in a toxic relationship. I know how it feels to wonder if this is all life is meant to be. I know how it feels to want more for yourself and feel lost at the same time.
After many many years of rebellion, the only way I felt whole again was when I found my savior Jesus. The journey to seek truth can be confusing. I was wrapped up in New Age beliefs, questioned what was real and what wasn't, and I had to unlearn to relearn truth.
Throughout this show, you'll find many conversations around the lessons I've learned through my personal experiences, special guests featuring their breakthrough stories when it comes to addiction, faith, domestic violence, childhood trauma, anxiety, fear, limiting beliefs and so much more!
My hope is that you find a breakthrough story (or many!) throughout the show that you relate to and get encouraged to take the next step towards YOUR breakthrough.





