Heal from Toxic Relationships | Self-Confidence, Relationship Boundaries, Red Flags, Trust in God, Healing Trauma
The Healing Oasis for Christian Woman ***TOP 2% GLOBAL PODCAST*** Do you feel like you’re in a constant cycle of toxic relationships? Do you struggle with confidence, finding your worth in what your current boyfriend says about you - no matter how hurtful? Have years of people-pleasing and lack of healthy boundaries left you burnt out and triggering deep emotional wounds? Are you unsure how to trust God in the wake of betrayal and heartbreak? I am so honored that you’re here! This podcast is your go-to resource for healing from unhealthy relationship patterns, building unshakeable confidence in Christ, and discovering your God-given purpose. Whether you’re longing to break free from emotional wounds or preparing your heart for a healthy, Godly marriage, you’re in the right place. Hey, I’m Dani! A Christian life coach, wife, and recovering people-pleaser who spent 10 years trapped in unhealthy, non-committed relationships. I searched for my worth in men, career success, and countless self-help books, but nothing filled the void—until I turned to Christ. Through a Christ-centered healing method, I finally broke free from my past, healed deep emotional wounds, and built my identity in Christ. Now, I’m here to help you do the same! In this podcast, I’ll teach you how to: - Heal from toxic relationships and emotional trauma - Overcome the fear of being alone and build healthy, loving relationships - Establish bold boundaries rooted in God’s truth and love - Feel confident in your God-given purpose, preparing you for a Godly marriage - Address and heal the wounds of abandonment and rejection, finding your true worth in Christ - Deepen your relationship with God, learning how to hear His voice and trust Him fully in every aspect of your life If you’re ready to transform your life, love yourself with confidence, and align your relationships with God’s plan, grab your favorite mocktail and join me! Together, we’ll overshare, overcome, and step into the abundant life God has for you. Next steps: Join The Healing Circle (free community!): https://whop.com/thehealingcircle/ Email Us: support@lovedani.org
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Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt like you're stuck in a pattern, going through the motions, and wondering why others seem to be thriving while you’re struggling? It’s like you’re both facing the same situation, but the outcomes are completely different. The truth is, it all comes down to perspective.
In today’s episode, we’re unpacking how your perspective shapes EVERYTHING—especially your performance and growth. We’re diving into how a shift in perspective, rooted in faith, can help you tackle challenges, setbacks, and even seasons of delay with purpose and peace.
Grab your journal, because we’re going deep into how adopting a higher perspective can unlock your true potential and help you see life through a heavenly vantage point. You’ve got so much more power than you realize, and it’s time to start seeing things differently.
See you on the inside!Xo,Dani
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Monday Mar 17, 2025
88 | I Thought I Was Healing… But I Was Doing It ALL Wrong
Monday Mar 17, 2025
Monday Mar 17, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt like you were “doing the work” to heal, but no matter how much time passed, you still felt stuck? Maybe you cut off men, got busy with self-improvement, or even convinced yourself you were over it—but deep down, the same wounds kept showing up in different ways.
Listen, I get it. I tried to heal the wrong way so many times. I thought I was getting stronger, when really, I was just avoiding, suppressing, or controlling my pain. But healing doesn’t happen through distraction, detachment, or even just “self-growth.” It happens when we do the deep, soul-level work with God.
So in today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the biggest mistakes I made in my healing journey—what didn’t work, and what finally led to real transformation. If you’re tired of going in circles and you’re ready for true freedom, this one’s for you.
This is where we stop playing small and start stepping into the healed, confident woman God created you to be.
See you on the inside!
Xo,Dani
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Wednesday Mar 12, 2025
87 | Tired of Hating Your Reflection? How to Heal Your Body Image with Brittany Braswell
Wednesday Mar 12, 2025
Wednesday Mar 12, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever looked in the mirror and felt like what you see just… isn’t enough? Maybe you pick apart your reflection, compare yourself to other women, or wonder if your body is why you weren’t loved the way you deserved.
Listen, I know how heavy that can feel—because I’ve been there, too. But here’s the truth: your worth has NOTHING to do with your weight, your shape, or how you look.
In today’s episode, we’re diving into the real reason body image struggles hit so hard, how toxic relationships can mess with the way you see yourself, and what God actually says about your beauty and worth.
So, grab your journal and let’s get real. We’re not just talking about self-love — we’re getting to the root of this, so you can finally see yourself the way God sees you: loved, chosen, and enough.
Brittany’s insights blew my mind, and I know they’re going to bless you too!Xo, Dani
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Monday Mar 03, 2025
86 | 4 Reasons Why Unhealed Trauma is The Devil’s Playground
Monday Mar 03, 2025
Monday Mar 03, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt like no matter how much you try to move forward, something keeps pulling you back? Like there’s this invisible force keeping you stuck in cycles of fear, shame, or rejection—making it nearly impossible to fully receive God’s love and live in His freedom?
Sis, that’s not by accident. The Bible says the enemy prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. And do you know where he sets his traps the most? In your unhealed trauma. He studies your fears, your wounds, your habits—waiting for the perfect moment to whisper lies into your mind and keep you bound.
In today’s episode, we’re breaking down 4 reasons why unhealed trauma is the devil’s playground and how to finally step into the freedom God has for you. We’re exposing the enemy’s tactics and equipping you with the truth to reclaim your healing, your confidence, and your purpose.
So grab your journal, and let’s dive in—because today is the day you start walking in victory!
See you on the inside!
Xo,
Dani
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Monday Feb 24, 2025
85 | Comparison is Sabotaging your Confidence! 3 Ways to Stop Being Insecure
Monday Feb 24, 2025
Monday Feb 24, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever caught yourself scrolling through social media, comparing your looks, your life, or your relationship to someone else’s highlight reel? It’s so easy to feel like you’re not enough when all you see are picture-perfect moments. But here’s the truth: comparison is one of the biggest confidence killers, and it’s keeping you stuck in insecurity, questioning your worth, and settling for less than God’s best.
In this episode, I’m breaking down why comparison is stealing your joy and revealing three powerful, biblical ways to break free from insecurity so you can finally walk in the confidence God created you for.
If you’re ready to stop feeling “less than” and start stepping into your true identity in Christ, grab your journal, hit play, and let’s do this together!
See you on the inside!
Xo, Dani
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Monday Feb 17, 2025
84 | Why Saying Yes to Everyone is Secretly Sabotaging Your Confidence
Monday Feb 17, 2025
Monday Feb 17, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt like your self-worth is tied to making others happy? Like no matter how much you try to set boundaries, you end up saying “yes” when you really mean “no”? If you’ve ever struggled with people-pleasing, this episode is going to be a wake-up call.
Today, we’re talking about why people-pleasing keeps your self-worth at risk and what you can do to break free. I’m sharing the hard truth (from a recovering people-pleaser 🙋🏻♀️) that this habit isn’t just exhausting—it’s actually holding you back from stepping fully into who God created you to be.
Sis, if you’re tired of overthinking what people think of you, feeling drained by constantly putting others first, and ready to reclaim your confidence—this is for YOU.
Grab your journal, let’s do this!
Xo,Dani
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Monday Feb 10, 2025
83 | Overcome Toxic Shame & Rebuild After Rock Bottom with Candi Rose
Monday Feb 10, 2025
Monday Feb 10, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt trapped by shame—like no matter how much you try to move forward, your past keeps haunting you? Maybe you’ve made mistakes, been in toxic relationships, or struggled with things you don’t even want to say out loud... If so, this episode is for you.
Today, I’m joined by the incredible Candi Rose, and her story is one of the most powerful redemption stories I’ve ever heard. From experiencing abuse, incarceration, and deep shame, to finding healing, purpose, and freedom in Christ—her journey will show you that no past is too messy for God to redeem (I just love these stories!!!)
We girl chat about what hidden shame does to you, the first step to healing, habits to adopt to rebuild your life and so much more! If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re too far gone, let this episode remind you: God isn’t done with your story.
Get ready for one of the realest conversations! I know it’s going to set some of you FREE.
See you on the inside!
Xo, Dani
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Monday Jan 27, 2025
82 | 5 Myths About Healing I Wish I Knew
Monday Jan 27, 2025
Monday Jan 27, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever fallen for some of the most popular healing myths that keep you stuck, and feeling like you’re not making progress? Maybe you’ve been told “time heals all wounds,” or you’ve tried staying busy to avoid your feelings. Perhaps you've even been convinced that healing means going back to who you were before... and doing it all by yourself?
Listen, I get it—and today, we're setting the record straight!
In this episode, we’re busting 5 of the most common myths about healing that are keeping you from the breakthroughs you’re praying for. It’s time to break free from these lies, so you can heal for real.
I’m diving into what healing really takes—attending to your wounds, embracing your new identity, finding the right support, and understanding that healing isn’t about arriving—it’s about the process.
Grab your journal, and let’s get real about what healing really looks like so you can step into the full wholeness God has for you!
See you on the inside!
Xo,Dani
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Monday Jan 20, 2025
Monday Jan 20, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt completely out of control when you’re triggered? Maybe it’s anger, anxiety, or that fight-or-flight feeling you can’t seem to shake—and before you know it, your emotions are running the show.
Listen, I’ve been there. But here’s the truth: triggers are actually an invitation to heal. In today’s episode, I’m sharing a step-by-step process to help you stop letting your emotions control you and take back the driver’s seat of your life.
So, grab your journal and let’s dive in. This is where we stop reacting from a place of pain and start healing the wounds behind those triggers. I’ll guide you through everything from grounding techniques to inviting God into the process for deeper, lasting healing.
See you on the inside!
Xo,Dani
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Monday Jan 13, 2025
Monday Jan 13, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt the weight of unforgiveness, shame, or rejection holding you back? Maybe you didn’t even realize they were there, but something just feels... heavy. Sis, I get it—these three have a sneaky way of shaping how we live, love, and even see ourselves.
In this episode, we’re going DEEP in the truth about these big 3 and how they impact your life (prob more than you realize).
You’ll learn:💔 What unforgiveness, shame, and rejection really are✨ How to recognize if they’re still showing up in your life🕊️ Practical, faith-filled steps to break free and move forward
I’ll share personal stories (spoiler: I’ve had to work through all of these too) and biblical truths to help you find healing. You don’t have to carry these burdens anymore—freedom is waiting for you, my love!
Grab your journal, and let’s work towards healing together.
Xo,
Dani
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Your Breakthrough Is Waiting For You
What does it mean to heal? To live a happy life? To feel good?
From a recovering perfectionist who has fought battles with drunkenness, meaningless hookups and one night stands, obsessed with how other's perceived me, trying to find worth in my status after being emotionally and verbally abused in a relationship, completely lost in my identity and seeking for any way to exit reality...
I started Blackouts To Breakthroughs for you.
I know how it feels to think deep thoughts to yourself and never say them out loud. I know how it feels to question your sanity for staying in a toxic relationship. I know how it feels to wonder if this is all life is meant to be. I know how it feels to want more for yourself and feel lost at the same time.
After many many years of rebellion, the only way I felt whole again was when I found my savior Jesus. The journey to seek truth can be confusing. I was wrapped up in New Age beliefs, questioned what was real and what wasn't, and I had to unlearn to relearn truth.
Throughout this show, you'll find many conversations around the lessons I've learned through my personal experiences, special guests featuring their breakthrough stories when it comes to addiction, faith, domestic violence, childhood trauma, anxiety, fear, limiting beliefs and so much more!
My hope is that you find a breakthrough story (or many!) throughout the show that you relate to and get encouraged to take the next step towards YOUR breakthrough.