Heal from Toxic Relationships | Self-Confidence, Relationship Boundaries, Red Flags, Trust in God, Healing Trauma
The Healing Oasis for Christian Woman ***TOP 2% GLOBAL PODCAST*** Do you feel like you’re in a constant cycle of toxic relationships? Do you struggle with confidence, finding your worth in what your current boyfriend says about you - no matter how hurtful? Have years of people-pleasing and lack of healthy boundaries left you burnt out and triggering deep emotional wounds? Are you unsure how to trust God in the wake of betrayal and heartbreak? I am so honored that you’re here! This podcast is your go-to resource for healing from unhealthy relationship patterns, building unshakeable confidence in Christ, and discovering your God-given purpose. Whether you’re longing to break free from emotional wounds or preparing your heart for a healthy, Godly marriage, you’re in the right place. Hey, I’m Dani! A Christian life coach, wife, and recovering people-pleaser who spent 10 years trapped in unhealthy, non-committed relationships. I searched for my worth in men, career success, and countless self-help books, but nothing filled the void—until I turned to Christ. Through a Christ-centered healing method, I finally broke free from my past, healed deep emotional wounds, and built my identity in Christ. Now, I’m here to help you do the same! In this podcast, I’ll teach you how to: - Heal from toxic relationships and emotional trauma - Overcome the fear of being alone and build healthy, loving relationships - Establish bold boundaries rooted in God’s truth and love - Feel confident in your God-given purpose, preparing you for a Godly marriage - Address and heal the wounds of abandonment and rejection, finding your true worth in Christ - Deepen your relationship with God, learning how to hear His voice and trust Him fully in every aspect of your life If you’re ready to transform your life, love yourself with confidence, and align your relationships with God’s plan, grab your favorite mocktail and join me! Together, we’ll overshare, overcome, and step into the abundant life God has for you. Next steps: Join The Healing Circle (free community!): https://whop.com/thehealingcircle/ Email Us: support@lovedani.org
Episodes
Monday Jun 02, 2025
Monday Jun 02, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever found yourself caught in a cycle of worry, convinced that anxiety and fear are just “part of life”? Maybe you wake up with a pit in your stomach, spend your day second-guessing every move, and end your evening replaying worst-case scenarios on loop. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone—and this episode was made for you.
In today’s live coaching session, we’re tearing down the lie that fear and anxiety are normal—and showing you how to take authority over your mind. I’ll share why God never intended for you to live in constant worry, how an “orphan spirit” keeps you chained to those anxious thoughts, and the exact steps you can take to replace them with God’s promise of peace.
You’ll walk away knowing how to spot fear’s lies, speak truth to your heart, and anchor yourself in the Father’s love. Let's move from “just surviving” to standing firm in God’s strength—no more accepting anxiety as the status quo. You can be free.
See you on the inside!
Xo,
Dani
Monday May 26, 2025
98 | Confidence Isn’t Built in the Mirror—It’s Built in Him
Monday May 26, 2025
Monday May 26, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever looked in the mirror and still felt like you weren’t enough—no matter how many affirmations you spoke or how many compliments you got? Same, sis. Growing up, I carried the weight of rejection, shame, and lies about my beauty and worth… and for a long time, I thought confidence was something I had to earn.
In today’s episode, I’m getting personal. We’re talking about what it means to rebuild your confidence when it’s been crushed by your past—and why real self-worth was never meant to come from you in the first place.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re not pretty enough, confident enough, or healed enough… this episode is for you. Get ready to breathe, reflect, and receive what God has been trying to show you all along: confidence isn’t built in the mirror. It’s built in Him.
Grab your journal, sis—let’s do this heart work together.
Xo,Dani
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Monday May 19, 2025
97 | What to Do on a Hard Day (From a Girl Having One)
Monday May 19, 2025
Monday May 19, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Are you in the middle of a hard day? Feeling triggered, insecure, emotional—or just plain heavy? Sis, I get it… because I’m walking through one too.
In today’s raw, from-the-heart episode, I’m bringing you into my world as I process the last 48 hours—filled with grief, insecurity, comparison, and emotional exhaustion. But even more than that, I’m sharing the exact things I’m doing to get through it with God, not just around it.
This episode is for the girl who’s trying to heal, trying to show up, but feeling a little too human. You’ll learn how to anchor yourself in truth when emotions lie, how to give yourself grace without spiraling, and how to let God meet you inthe pain instead of rushing past it.
So grab your journal and let’s talk. I promise this episode will meet you right where you are.
See you on the inside,xo,Dani
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Monday May 12, 2025
96 | The Pressure to “Be Healed” Is a Lie — What God Taught Me in Brazil
Monday May 12, 2025
Monday May 12, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt like you're trying to hurry up and “be healed already”? Like you're rushing through your pain just so you can be okay again—for your relationship, your work, your life? That was me… until Brazil.
In today’s episode, I’m sharing what God showed me when I tried to fix myself too fast—and how He stopped me right in the middle of my pain to teach me how to rely on Him for real healing. Sis, healing isn’t linear. It’s holy. And sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is pause, feel, and let Him hold you.
So if you’ve been feeling pressure to be okay or you’ve been judging yourself for still struggling, this episode is for you. You’re not failing—God is just trying to meet you right where it hurts.
Let’s talk about how to stop rushing your healing and let God lead you through it.
See you on the inside,xo,Dani
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Monday May 05, 2025
Monday May 05, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Are you feeling stuck trying to figure out your passion or waiting for a clear sign from God about your purpose? Maybe you feel like it’s still hidden or far off, and you're wondering if you’ve missed it. What if your purpose isn’t something you have to chase down — but something that's already inside of you?
In today’s live coaching session, you’ll hear me walk several women through reflections that help uncover the passions, patterns, and gifts God uniquely wove into them. We dive into what it looks like to recognize your purpose through your natural wiring and lived experiences—without pressure, striving, or comparison.
If you’ve been waiting for permission to trust what’s already inside of you, this episode will encourage you and give you real steps to start walking it out. Your purpose isn’t ahead of you, sis—it’s already within you, ready to be activated.
See you on the inside,xo,Dani
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Monday Apr 28, 2025
94 | Forgiveness Isn’t Letting Them Off the Hook—It’s Setting You Free
Monday Apr 28, 2025
Monday Apr 28, 2025
Hi beautiful ♥️
Today’s episode is going to meet you deep in your heart—and set you free if you let it.
I’m pulling a live training I recently hosted all about unforgiveness—what it really is, how it’s secretly holding you back, and why you can’t build a free, fulfilled life when your heart is still bound in bitterness, shame, or resentment.
We walk through the hidden ways unforgiveness shows up in your business, relationships, confidence, and purpose—and how to start letting it go. Plus, I guide you through a powerful mirror exercise and journaling prompts that will help you release old wounds and reclaim your peace.
This is real heart work—and the freedom on the other side is so worth it. Grab your journal, find a quiet space, and let’s walk through it together.
See you on the inside,xo,Dani
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Monday Apr 21, 2025
93 | If You Keep Settling, Listen to This—Your Mindset Is Lying to You
Monday Apr 21, 2025
Monday Apr 21, 2025
Hi beautiful ♥️
If you’ve ever felt like you know you’re made for more… but you keep shrinking, settling, or sabotaging the very things you prayed for—this episode is for you.
I’m bringing you into a live coaching call I did with my sales girls that stirred up so much breakthrough around beliefs, habits, and self-sabotage. We talked about the real reason so many women stay stuck—not because they’re not capable, but because their mindset is operating off of old programming. If you don’t upgrade the belief, you’ll keep repeating the same cycle—no matter how badly you want out.
Grab your journal and get ready to reflect, because I’m walking you through a powerful exercise to uncover the limiting beliefs keeping you from your next level—and how to step into the woman you know you’re called to be.
See you on the inside,xo,Dani
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Monday Apr 14, 2025
Monday Apr 14, 2025
Hi beautiful ♥️
Have you been feeling off lately? Heavy. Unmotivated. A little lost. Maybe even wondering, “What’s wrong with me?” I get it, because I’ve been in that place too. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing what God revealed to me about the spiritual heaviness I’ve been feeling—and how the enemy was using it to make me doubt my worth, my impact, and my calling.
This is one of those honest, Spirit-led conversations where I just let you in on where I’ve been, what I’ve learned, and how to move forward when life feels dark or discouraging. If you’ve been questioning your purpose, your place in the room, or whether you’re even making a difference—this is your reminder that God has not changed His mind about you. You are not disqualified, and you are not alone.
Whether you’re leading, healing, or just trying to stay faithful—this episode is going to breathe fresh perspective and fire into your soul. You’ll be reminded that the battle isn’t just emotional or mental—it’s spiritual. And most importantly, you’ll walk away knowing how deeply needed, loved, and chosen you still are.
See you on the inside,xo,Dani
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Sunday Apr 06, 2025
Sunday Apr 06, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt like you’re doing everything right—showing up, learning, growing—but still not seeing the results you prayed for? Like the promise God gave you is taking forever to show up?
In today’s episode, we’re talking all about the process—why it matters, what it’s producing in you, and how to stop treating your current season like it’s a punishment. You’ll learn how to shift your perspective and embrace the everyday, sometimes uncomfortable, becoming that happens between where you are and where you’re going.
If you’ve been feeling stuck, frustrated, or questioning your journey, this episode will breathe life back into your mindset and remind you of the power that’s already inside you.
So grab your journal—this one’s gonna challenge you, bless you, and help you walk this process out with faith, humility, and fire. 🔥
See you on the inside!
Xo,Dani
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Monday Mar 31, 2025
Monday Mar 31, 2025
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever found yourself constantly fearing that you’ll be cheated on again? Maybe one betrayal shattered your ability to trust, and now you find yourself questioning every man’s motives, wondering if true loyalty even exists.
I’ve been there. I know what it feels like to carry the weight of heartbreak and try to protect yourself from ever feeling that kind of pain again. But sis, I also know this: healing is possible. And it starts with putting your trust back where it belongs—in God.
In today’s episode, I’m sharing real talk about the process of learning to trust again after infidelity—starting with healing your relationship with yourself, being secure in your identity in Christ, and choosing partners who are actually led by God (not just claiming Him). This episode is raw, real, and full of hope.
So grab your journal, get comfy, and let’s talk about how to finally walk in security, faith, and peace—even after betrayal.
See you on the inside!Xo,Dani
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Your Breakthrough Is Waiting For You
What does it mean to heal? To live a happy life? To feel good?
From a recovering perfectionist who has fought battles with drunkenness, meaningless hookups and one night stands, obsessed with how other's perceived me, trying to find worth in my status after being emotionally and verbally abused in a relationship, completely lost in my identity and seeking for any way to exit reality...
I started Blackouts To Breakthroughs for you.
I know how it feels to think deep thoughts to yourself and never say them out loud. I know how it feels to question your sanity for staying in a toxic relationship. I know how it feels to wonder if this is all life is meant to be. I know how it feels to want more for yourself and feel lost at the same time.
After many many years of rebellion, the only way I felt whole again was when I found my savior Jesus. The journey to seek truth can be confusing. I was wrapped up in New Age beliefs, questioned what was real and what wasn't, and I had to unlearn to relearn truth.
Throughout this show, you'll find many conversations around the lessons I've learned through my personal experiences, special guests featuring their breakthrough stories when it comes to addiction, faith, domestic violence, childhood trauma, anxiety, fear, limiting beliefs and so much more!
My hope is that you find a breakthrough story (or many!) throughout the show that you relate to and get encouraged to take the next step towards YOUR breakthrough.